Click here to check if anything new just came in.
December 10 2014
'Sons of Anarchy': How do you rate that ending?
December 05 2014
The One Rule All Balding Men Should Follow
December 02 2014
Whodunnit? Why North Korea Is Suspected in Sony Hack
November 19 2014
What Texting Does to the Spine
November 15 2014
Three dead in Nigeria air crash as Boko Haram attacks
November 11 2014
October 28 2014
Agents: Man says devil made him do it; 10 Commandments smashed
October 17 2014
AbbVie urges shareholders to reject Shire deal due to tax rule change
October 14 2014
How Apple Gets You To Buy New iPhones Over And Over Again
October 10 2014
6 must-reads from Palin family brawl, according to police report
October 06 2014
Hewlett-Packard to split into two companies
September 29 2014
How to Get More From Every Ad Dollar You Spend on Facebook
September 25 2014
Backyard pools losing appeal in some parts of Bay Area
September 23 2014
Indiegogo Will Allow Extended Campaigns
September 19 2014
Error in ninth gives Yankees walk-off 3-2 victory; Derek Jeter hits home run
September 17 2014
Investing in new technologies? Do it widely...
September 15 2014
French bank warns: Stay away from these 20 stocks ahead of Scotland vote
September 11 2014
Intel launches 15-core Xeon E7 v2 family for big data and mission-critical computing
September 09 2014
'iWatch' to headline Apple event, analysts predict
CUPERTINO -- While Tuesday's Apple event is cloaked in the company's customary blanket of secrecy, there have been enough leaks and rumors for analysts to make pretty good guesses about what will be announced.
The consensus is that CEO Tim Cook and crew will unveil the first new product of his tenure, a smartwatch already dubbed the "iWatch" by the media -- but what Apple will call it is still unclear. According to some reports, the watch will come in two sizes and will be shielded with a sapphire screen.Analysts predict that the device will be pitched as a tool for monitoring health and fitness. In addition, the watch reportedly will be equipped with near-field communication technology so users can make payments in retail stores without reaching for their wallets. Although analysts anticipate that the watch will be introduced Tuesday, most do not expect it to hit stores until 2015.
"The wearable will be the first product that comes to market that has Cook's personal imprint on it," said Tim Bajarin, president of Creative Strategies.What's still unclear, aside from the name, is how much the smartwatch will cost, although one report pegs it at $400.In keeping with tradition, Apple is also likely to debut a new iPhone or two.The company reportedly will release two new phones with screens of 4.7 and 5.5 inches, addressing growing demand in the market for larger devices. Lest the devices start feeling bulky, Apple will roll out software to help users type and navigate apps with one hand, according to some reports. The devices will also reportedly be equipped with NFC technology to facilitate mobile payments.
Although Apple has long resisted the move toward larger screens, the design plays to the company's strengths, said Ramon Llamas, a research manager at IDC.
"One of the things Apple does really well is content," which can be showcased better on a bigger screen, Llamas said.
But the size will come at a cost. Analysts expect the phones to be more expensive, with the 5.5 inch device cast as the higher-end model. It's still unclear whether Apple will continue to produce the iPhone 5S and 5C, both released last year, once new models are out, said Matt Margolis, an analyst at PTT Research.
Although Apple is ramping up production of sapphire at a Mesa, Arizona, facility, some question whether the company will have enough of the material on hand to make more durable screens for the iPhone. But Margolis thinks Apple will be able to pull it off.
"I think it'll be a big surprise when they do announce it," he said.
Apple is also expected to showcase two new cloud-based platforms, HealthKit and HomeKit. The programs, announced earlier this year, give developers tools to create new applications for monitoring health and building so-called "smart homes."
And of course, there's always the chance of "One more thing ..."
September 08 2014
How to fight fair in relationships
Early on in the Veltkamps' marriage, most discussions about money led Liana and Jeremy into a full-blown yelling match. The young San Ramon couple -- who each work two jobs to support their family -- would talk over each other, often having the same frustrating argument.
Worst of all, nothing ever got resolved.
That all changed when the Veltkamps learned how to fight fair using practical, speaker-listener exercises. They took turns and, when necessary, timeouts.
"We learned to put our pride aside and just listen to each other," Liana says.
Turns out, fighting can be great for relationships -- if you fight clean. A 2011 study in Psychological Science revealed that the happiest couples argue in tandem with their partner, using words like "we" to spark compromise. (Meanwhile, another study by researchers at the University of Utah found that 93 percent of couples who fight dirty will be divorced within 10 years.)
The key to fighting fair is learning how to diffuse anger and, more important, increase empathy, says Les Parrott, clinical psychologist and author with his wife, Leslie, a marriage and family therapist, of the new book, "The Good Fight: How Conflict Can Bring You Closer" (Worthy; 190 pages). According to Les Parrott, the majority of marital spats would be resolved if all the couple did was accurately see the issue from the other's perspective.
The Parrotts, founders of the Center for Relationship Development at Seattle Pacific University, are on a national tour to teach couples the principles of a fair fight, or what they call C.O.R.E.: Cooperation, Ownership, Respect and Empathy. Their "Fight Night" stops Sept. 12 at Cornerstone Fellowship in Livermore. Tickets are available at www.lesandleslie.com. The website also features more than 1,000 free videos that help answer relationship questions.
After more than 25 years researching relationships, Les Parrott says two of the biggest mistakes couples make in how they handle conflict is putting all of their energy into blaming and trying to get their points across. "Seek first," he urges. "Before you try to talk and prove your point, just listen."
That type of empathy was critical for Livermore's Donny and Tehani Hodge, who have been married for almost 13 years. Like many couples, the Hodges' hot-button issue was their relatives, and their fights "would get nasty, with name-calling," Tehani recalls, whenever she would turn to Donny for support following a disagreement she had with a family member.
Read more: How to fight fair in relationships
Maybe Soup is currently being updated? I'll try again automatically in a few seconds...